Friday, July 27, 2012

My girl is 10 months old

Well, my baby is officially past the 10-month mark. And it makes me sad. I wish I could get my teeny tiny newborn back for just one day. But just one. She was a tough newborn. So I'm putting off the wedding recap for a few more days to recap my little princess instead. 


Weight: Find out next week

Length: I'll have to measure

Diapers: Officially into size 3s, but I think maybe I'm just being picky, and needing them too roomy. Still, I'm not going back to size 2s now. 



Feeding: Finally FINALLY you are eating half decently lately. You typically love your morning and nighttime cereal. You're iffy at times about your daytime meals, but usually you eat them okay. You typical feeding day for the past couple of weeks is this: Morning cereal (2 tbsp of rice cereal mixed with 1 tbsp of wheat, raspberry and yogurt cereal - the past couple of days I've been giving actual yogurt along with it), a couple of ounces of bottle in between each meal, half jar of veggies and half fruit at lunch, same at supper, and same cereal at night, minus the real yogurt. 

I haven't seen you gag in awhile, but I've been sticking to a lot of the same things that you seem to either like, or are impartial to: creamed corn, sweet potatoes, squash, carrots. You seem okay with most fruit, and love custard. You also love your puffy treats and Baby Mum Mums. You love sucking on bottles and sippy cups, but it seems more of a soothing thing than drinking - since you never want to actually tip them back when you're on the go. You'll eat little pieces of toast or bread, or random things I give you to try. Oddly enough, you love lemon. I gave you one expecting a sour face, and got one, but you kept grabbing for it and putting it in your mouth and the faces stopped. 


Sleep: I don't think you've slept through the night in awhile, but you're still usually up only once. Twice if you know I'm really tired. And you'll wake up right at 11-12 when you know I'm trying to go to bed early. Usually you still nap twice a day, but sometimes you'll miss a nap. You now get your bedtime bottle in bed, most of your middle of the night bottle in bed, and all your nap bottles in bed. I fear I'm starting a bedtime/bottle addiction, but I'll deal with that later. At least you seem to be drinking more milk. You usually go to bed very shortly after 7pm, and are up around the same time in the morning. You still go back to bed through the night without a fight every time. I love it. 


Talking: You growl, you babble, you say 'dada' and 'mama', but it sounds more like 'mum mum', and you squeal and scream a lot more lately. You've got a ton of happy sounds. Your favorite sound is the one you make when you put your wrist over your mouth and move your fingers. You also love it when you make noise and I move my finger against your mouth to make a funny noise. You're quite the girl. 


You hate going for long car rides lately. You whine or cry for a lot of the trip. 

You have you first friend / sister type thing, boyfriend's daughter. You've spent a lot of time together lately and are starting to play together nice sometimes - except she's still bigger and rougher, and doesn't like to share so far. Still, you seem to idol her and follow her around. You always want to do what she's doing. It's pretty adorable. 

You're still a pretty easy baby. You might whine a lot, but for the most part you can have free roam of the apartment without getting into trouble or getting hurt. You still fall on your head every now and then, but much less often. You can pull yourself into the standing position now against furniture, and you walk very wobbly when we hold your hands. It looks funny because you're so small. I don't really think you'll walk before your birthday, but I wouldn't mind if you did. 

Overall, you kill me with cuteness every day. Adjusting to motherhood was hard at first, but I could never go back. 

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

The days leading up to the wedding

I went back to my hometown this past weekend to be a bridesmaid in one of my oldest friend's wedding. While I don't want to bore you with all the lame details, I do want to document it for myself so here goes. 


Wednesday, July 18
I hitched a ride back to my hometown area to spend time with a friend who's home on vacation from the other side of the country. Me and baby girl stayed with them for two nights. The first night we met up with some old friends that I hadn't seen in forever for dinner. It was like we were together yesterday. The same old jokes, making fun, and non-stop laughing. Always a good time with this bunch. Chloe was happy as can be the whole night, and even stayed up past 10 when we got back, because she was enjoying all the attention. 

Chloe at the restaurant. Turns out the girl loves lemons

Thursday, July 19
I had an early hair appointment that my friend was nice enough to drive me to, and watch the baby for me. In the afternoon we took an amazing nap together while Chloe napped, then the wedding rehearsal was that evening. The church rehearsal went smoothly enough, and the party afterwards was a good time. We left a little early when Chloe decided she was ready for bed. Me and the friend were in bed almost as soon as Chloe was. Oh, how we love sleep. 

Chloe and my friend C
Chloe, letting us know it was bedtime
Baby girl and my friend S., who is her new best friend since he lets her play with his iPhone


Friday, July 20
I woke up to find a text from boyfriend, mentioning a surprise. The surprise was, he was already at my mom's to surprise me, but I ended up sleeping at my friend's place an hour away. Still, I was happy that he made it up so early. He met me, then took me to drop Chloe back off at my Mom's, then we ate and checked in to our hotel room. We were so excited to find out we had a fridge. 

For some reason, I felt so restless like we needed to do something because it was vacation. We tried to visit a friend of mine, who ended up having to leave before we got there. We tried to stop by the BBQ my engaged friend was having, but she was gone when we got there. Eventually we just went back to the room and killed an hour playing around in the pool and hot tub at the hotel. 

We hung out in our  fancy hotel bathrobes and relaxed until bedtime. Maybe not the most exciting night, but almost my favorite part of the whole week. Of course, I would forget to take any pictures that day. I always used to take pictures of any hotel room I stayed in. I fail. 


I'll recap Saturday and Sunday tomorrow, since Saturday was wedding day and there will be lots of pictures : )

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Hey, it's okay

I'd like to get a blog post in, but still don't have the time to completely recap my amazing weekend, so I'm keeping it short and linking up with Amber for It's Okay Tuesday. So let's get this show on the road... 


It's okay...

To put off blogging because you have so much to say and not enough time to say it all. I hope. 

That I'm blogging instead of doing the baby-proofing I desperately need to do, before I start babysitting another baby in 45 minutes. 

To get along with your boyfriend's ex. It's fantastic actually. 

To be slightly drunk by 6pm when it's a wedding day and there are no babies to be taking care of. 

To take kissy pictures and post them on Facebook. I hope. 

To not get dressed when you know you won't be leaving the house. At least my current pjs are new-ish sweatpants, and not ratty old pjs. 

To forget to shut the lights off when you leave a room. Someone just needs to tell boyfriend that. 

To want to do all kinds of productive things, but never actually get around to doing them because you get stuck on Facebook and Blogger. Oh well. 





PS... I guest posted over at Yes Teacher, writing about advice for new moms yesterday, since the blogger, Sarah, just had her baby boy a few weeks ago. Pop over and say hi if you get the chance :)

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I'll be gone

I've been MIA a little bit lately, with the loss of my car, and with spending a lot of time with a certain boy. At the same time, I will continue to be missing for a little while, as I'm leaving today for the rest of the week to be a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding this weekend. All our friends are home from all over the world for the wedding, and it is going to be so great to see them all. 

I'll be back Monday..ish. 

Monday, July 16, 2012

Time to take that next step and merge families


Way back in May, boyfriend and I first started toying with the idea of living together. At the time, it seemed like such a distant idea, but as we spent more time together and got closer, there started to be more conversations about 'if we ever live together'. 

After both of us taking a look at our own finances, we finally had a real talk about it happening sooner rather than later. Then we discussed a potential time frame for when he could officially move into my place. We still had 'if' conversations for another day before he officially asked me if we could stop saying 'if', and I said yes.  It won't be for at least a month, but we're going to be living together. 

I know it will be really challenging at times. I'm not just moving in a boyfriend, I'm also moving in part-time 18 month old. New routines will have to be figured out. Night times will probably be harder, the apartment will be messier. Our parenting styles are very different. I like to be a little more in control when it comes to my daughter, where he's much more carefree with his. I want to teach my daughter not to touch things she shouldn't, where he has a hard time saying no. 

Yeah, it will be a pretty big adjustment for everyone, but I think the positives outweigh the negatives by a ton. 

It will be easier to spend time together. It will help us both out a lot financially. Neither of us will be 'stuck home' with a baby in bed if for some reason one of us needs to go out. We can be each other's occasional babysitter. He already said that he would keep my daughter with him on days that I worked and he didn't, which is amazing. 

I'm tired of missing him when he's gone, and not knowing which day I'll get to see him next. I really have a good feeling about this. 

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Thursday, July 12, 2012

I Love: Celebrities, Babies, Boyfriends and Sunshine

I'm taking a break from my Pinterest link-up this week, because frankly, who cares if I do? 

Tuesday I was talking about how I had the flu, and the week could only get better from there. Oh, how I was wrong. Chloe has woken up twice through the night the past two nights, adding to my exhaustion despite my attempts to get to bed super early and get some rest. Wednesday I worked, and my car started smoking on the drive there. As always, things could be worse, but it would be great if they got better. 

Instead of focusing on that, I'm going to list what I've been loving this week. 

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Tuesday night. Monday I finally told boyfriend a bit about how I've been feeling, and as amazing as I already thought he was, I was still surprised at how easy the conversation went. He came over and while we still just hung out and didn't do a whole lot, it felt like we were 'together' and not just 'friends'. 

The boy certainly knows how to take a hint, even when it's not meant to be one. I mentioned one day that I think he looks cuter without facial hair. Even though he likes it, the next time I saw him, it was gone. 


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Work. Oh.. my.. God.. As of yesterday, I absolutely love my job. I am sitting innocently at the desk, doing my thing while people wander around. There's this guy, and he kind of looks like this guy, so I pull up that guy's website, and think 'Nooo, that's not him.' Well, joke's on me, because it most certainly was Jason McCoy, country singer that I've loved since my childhood (Born Again in Dixieland was released when I was 10!). My day was made when I saw him wander through two more times that day. And no, I didn't get to speak to him. 


Friends. One of my close friends (since my childhood as well!) is visiting from the other end of the country, and gets home tomorrow. I am super excited to see her, as well as the rest of our group of friends who all get home during the next week. Because one of our friends is getting married next Saturday! 


My daughter. Of course I love her. She's cute. When she's not being cranky. Which is a lot of the time. But I guess she's still cute when she's cranky. 


The Weather. It has seriously been so nice almost every day lately. We haven't gotten out too much, with my sickness, working, etc., but the weather is appreciated either way. I'm in a better mood with the sun shining, whether I'm outside or not. 


As long as my car doesn't die on me before this wedding, life is pretty good. 

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Nothing like spending the weekend with the flu


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I had one hell of a weekend. Because I caught the flu, or food poisoning. I don't know the difference, really. Either way, it was not pleasant. My biggest fear is getting sick, and well, that fear was put to the test.

Luckily, when I first realized how sick I actually was, it was early enough to call my daughter's father and he agreed to take her first thing in the morning for me, since she was already in bed. I was still worried how I would deal with her middle of the night feeding, but when she did get up around 5am, it went pretty smoothly. In the morning I tried to get her ready to go to her father's, but all the movement just made me sicker. 

It's kind of heartbreaking to hear your baby crying but you can't go to her because you're sick. At least it was only because she was cranky. It was a relief when her father finally picked her up, but I was still sad to see her go. I hate being alone when I'm sick. 

After tons of napping and one amazing shower, boyfriend took me to get some food that I could try to attempt, and I spent the night at his place. I've felt fine for a few days now, but I'm still in recovery and trying to build back up my appetite. Being sick is not my friend. 

The rest of my weekend included a nice trip to the park with boyfriend and the girls, a second sleepover with both girls, at his place this time, and a trip to visit some of my family and get my bridesmaids dress fitted on Monday. It was a two hour drive there, and two hours back. Baby girl was not a fan, and we won't be trying that again in one day for a long time.

I have a feeling that the rest of this week is going to be much better. 

Friday, July 06, 2012

My darling girl is 9 months old

My princess is 9 months old as of June 25th. I've said it a million times, but it's crazy how fast time is flying by. Three months from now I will be back to work full-time. I didn't know a full year could go by so fast. 

I haven't done a baby update on this blog yet, but it's a great time to start. First off, the stats:


Weight: 15lbs 7oz (as of July 3)

Length: 28.5 inches

Diapers: Still size 2s, but they don't have a whole lot of extra room. You wore your first size 3 diaper on July 5th, but will still finish off more size 2s before the official switch. 


Feeding: You are a nightmare to feed solids, and I mean that in the most loving way possible. Some days you open your mouth for every bite, but most of the time I have to fight for you to take any bites at all. Some days you physically fight me away from you at feeding time, sometimes you cry, and sometimes you gag. I try to get as much food into you as possible, but you make it very hard. I'd like to list your likes and dislikes, but one minute you're fine with something and the next day you gag over it. I can't keep it straight. You usually love your cereal, but sometimes you won't even eat that. 

You love your puff treats. You finally figured out how to pick them up with your finger and thumb instead of in your fist. You love drinking from a big girl cup, but I always forget to do it with you. 


Sleep: As of July 5th, you slept through the night for three nights in a row (the last night you woke up at 5:30 for a bottle then went back down, but I still count it). It's been lovely, but it means our mornings sometimes start earlier (6:30-7, where it used to be 8-9). You're still on two naps a day, one morning and one afternoon, usually a bit more than an hour each. You still cry a lot almost every time I put you to sleep. It's a nice treat those few times that you do go to bed without a fuss.

Talking: You babble, you make word sounds, you growl, you squeal. You're pretty vocal at times. Other times you're so silent. Growling still seems to be your favorite. 



Moving: June 5th you took you first crawling 'step' at boyfriend's place. He told me you would crawl for the first time that day, and was the one who put you down on your hands and knees, expecting you to make the move and you did. It didn't take long for you to really get going, and now you follow me everywhere I go. You can pull yourself up onto things, but just up to your knees. Soon you'll be standing. I just wish you'd stop falling on your head. 

Social: You're still a big flirt - most of the time. Strangers still scare you sometimes, and lately you've started to get terrified when another child cried near you - mostly boyfriend's daughter, but even your 4-year old cousin crying made you cry. Maybe it's compassion, but most likely you're just a wimp :p


Teeth: Still just the two.

Misc: Now that you're crawling, you're getting into things. I've been able to teach you not to touch the dvds just by saying no. You haven't pulled them off the shelf in quite awhile now. I'm trying to teach you not to touch other things, but at the same time I don't want to always be telling you no. I'm already trying to pick my battles. 

You got your first pool on July 3rd. You didn't hate it, but weren't overly excited by it. You played for a bit but then wanted to crawl out. You seem to like the tub better, probably because it has more moving room. The water temperature in the pool was warm enough. 

I'm scared of month 10. You're just growing way too fast. 

Thursday, July 05, 2012

Pinterest Clean-up: Link up your desserts!

It's time to clean-up another one of your Pinterest boards. 

Join with me and revisit your pins, one board at a time. The goal is to get rid of any bad pins, get everything more organized if possible, and find a few awesome pins to share with everyone on your blog (post the photos and links to the pins), then come back here and link up. And be nice and visit the person who linked up ahead of you, and more if you have the time. Visit the Pinterest Link-Up page for more information. 

This week we are linking up desserts and sweets.

* As I'm having internet problems, as usual, and photos aren't loading, I'm only sharing one pin today. This is my sweets board on Pinterest.

[ Smores Croissants Pin -|- Blog Post ]
Marshmallows, chocolate chips, and a tube of crescent rolls. Can it get any easier?

Please be kind and visit the person who linked up ahead of you, or more if you have the time. It's good karma. And it would also be lovely if you would post this button as well: 


A Life of Our Own





Coming Up:
Child-related pins - July 12th

Wednesday, July 04, 2012

Baby's First Pool Party

At the spur of the moment, I packed up our things and we drove to my mother's house when she brought up the idea of buying the baby a little inflatable pool to play in. It was a beautiful day with absolutely no plans so I was more than willing to drive the hour, just to have something to do. We went to Wally World and bought her a tiny pink pool with a shade. 

When I brought her outside and put her down on the grass, she crawled over and had to test the water herself. 



Then I threw her in, gave her some toys and she was good to go. She loves the bathtub, so I knew she wouldn't hate the pool. Still, she didn't exactly love it. She splashed a little, sucked on the little inflatable toys that came with it, but soon enough, she was trying to climb back out. 





Still, very much worth the $15 we spent on it (and it's cute!) and hopefully we can try it out again tomorrow before we pack it up to take it home with us. It's a great way to get outside and keep her cool at the same time. 

I just wish it was big enough to fit me too! I'll keep that in mind the next time we get an inflatable pool. 

Tuesday, July 03, 2012

Blog Star: Can't wait to meet you!




I'm Nessa. I'm not a new blogger, but this is, for the most part, a new blog. A fresh start, a more honest look into my life. I'm not here to sugarcoat things, or to only talk about the good. I'm here to tell the truth. 

I have an adorable baby girl, who was born in September 2011. This is her birth story




My blog is about single motherhood and it's challenges, like when two single parents start dating. I'm currently dating the sweetest guy I've ever known, who has a daughter of his own. My blog is about me and my world. I'm a mid-twenties Canadian girl, who's in love with the beach, and pretty much obsessed with paper crafting and taking photos. 

I just started a Pinterest-inspired link-up, where you post five great pins that fit under that theme of the week. The goal is to share fun things, find other great bloggers, and make sure your pins are all pinned to the proper place. 

I absolutely love getting to know new bloggers, and while I haven't met any in real life, there are many bloggers out there that I genuinely care about, and look forward to each little update on their lives. Blogging is an amazing community to be a part of. 

So say hi, let me know you were here so I can return the favor! 

You can also find me here:
Pinterest - Twitter - Good Reads - Facebook


Mrs. Monologues

Monday, July 02, 2012

The Canada Day when the Baby Hated the Beach

You know those days where nothing amazing happens, but when all is said and done, you just feel like you had an amazing time? That was pretty much my weekend. 

I spent Saturday night with boyfriend. While the night didn't turn out anything like we planned, we had a few drinks with one of his friends, and getting out for awhile that night. Since things had been a little less than perfect lately, it was nice to get out and have a little fun without our daughters. 

On Sunday (Canada Day!) we took the girls to the beach. It was the first time for both of them. His daughter (17 months) just loved it, but my fragile little 9 month old hated it. She cried from the moment I sunscreened her up, the whole time we sat on the towel, the whole time I carried her around the beach, and freaked when I let her try to kick in the water. Needless to say, I opted out of actually sitting her in the water. I took her up to the grassy area, into the shade and after a lot of attempts at distracting her, she became semi-happy girl again. 

This is how baby girl felt about the beach

Much better :)

We were only by ourselves for about 15 minutes, and I felt bad for cutting our beach time short. I would've been okay with sitting alone longer, but boyfriend is too nice for that stuff. I got some pretty gorgeous photos of her in the meantime, and before we left the beach for the day, we got a "family photo" of me, boyfriend, and the girls. 


A few weeks ago, we made an attempt at having a sleepover with both babies, which failed miserably, and after a busy day for everyone, we decided last minute to try again last night. I had my doubts that it would go smoothly, but a night of interrupted sleep sounded better than having the two of them go home. 

There was something just... nice about having them there and going through the bedtime routine. Both girls were fed, changed, bathed and put to bed. It's lovely when exhausted babies go right to sleep, because I've learned that's not always the case. It was even more lovely when we were finally ready to just lay around on the couch together before bed. 

His daughter woke up twice, and I was worried because my super light sleeper didn't wake up at all. A gift to me, I suppose. 

The alarm rang way too early at 6:30 am for me to get up for work.

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